Submit a new response. These women answered questions about their personal experiences with pleasure—the role of clitoral stimulation in orgasm, whether all orgasms are created equal, and how many women are actually reaching orgasm through intercourse. Oral sex can be highly pleasurable to many women because of its direct focus on the clitoris. Still not sure about this one? You can achieve the same effect when she's on top by propping yourself up on your elbows, which places your abdomen in closer contact with her clitoris. Used individually or all together, they'll help you get there in record time. How to have one?
Also click here to find out when Kingsman: Whether that means you explore up and down with your tongue or you're using your fingers during penetration, remember that when in doubt, go up and down. Just keep doing what you're doing and pretty soon she'll be seeing fireworks — all thanks to you. Seventy-five percent of the women who achieve orgasm from clitoral stimulation said that they have their own pattern that works for them. Once you do finally figure out what she likes, stick to it.
Even for the women who said they don't need clitoral stimulation to have an orgasm, 36 percent of them said paying attention to the clit makes their orgasms feel better during sex. Trace your tongue in circular motions over her clitoris during oral sex or use your fingers in a circle. Want to win a killer Kingsman: In fact, 63 percent of respondents said it works for them. So while you may spend hours trying to crack the code, you could just ask your partner what works for her.
Stick with what got you to that point and you'll likely get there. And for women, being in a stable relationship is beneficial for their overall sexual satisfaction. Try setting a timer and touching yourself for a predetermined amount of time, like 10 minutes. Happiness and relationships editor at mindbodygreen, fashion, music, and lifestyle journalist; yoga enthusiast; audio- and anglophile. Your body is capable of some of the most intense, satisfying, and healing energy-producing force. There's more than one blissed-out, body-tingling way to a happy ending, and the more paths you travel, the more exciting sex will be and stay. Sign Up Already have an account?